I think I'm going to start keeping track of things that I take note of day by day that have some significance... Yesterday I pondered... (in regards to marriage)
First: Read Ephesians 5
These are just a few things I pulled out of this...
Women want to be (and should be) cherished by their husbands. Men want to be (and should be) honored by their wife. God designed us in this way.
God designed marriage to mimic the Trinity, each party yielding to the other. Think about it... this is why the Lord feels so strongly against divorce, audultery, homosexuality, etc. Because these things make a mockery of his perfect design.
There is much to be said on this topic, but I have no more time to expand at the present.